Dear friends,
Now a days there is great issue of loosing Virginity in India in early age specially among girls. We always raise voice over involvement of Sex education in our school curriculum. Since this the work of central government and education ministry, so they are always in dicey in involving or not involving in the syllabus.
What other parties will say?
How different religious gurus will react?
Will schools management will agree?
How will media project it in front of public?
What to put in the syllabus?
From which class we should start?
Should there will be annual paper of this subject?
These are few questions which any central government will face, but will sex educated youth will behave more mature than a young in present environment.
If government will issue any notice in Universities regarding this, then there are many such parties, groups and other so called NGO's or social workers are there who surely oppose this action. You have seen the interference of government in JNU case what result we are getting all are against them.
What we can do on our own do is that we should give proper education to our kids. I am unlucky not father of a girl child but I am in teaching profession since last 20 years and was always with teenagers and young boys and girls. I know their problems and their changing attitude and activities years after years. How casual they are talking and taking SEX. They are taking it as part of their teenage. We have to forget shame and educate our kids regarding pros and cons of early involvement in these activities. Let us have eye on our kids without hindering their daily routine, also know their friends as well as their friends families and areas (from where they are coming).
Let I give an example when I was in school or college. When I was of this age, I too have girls as my friends but I never meet them outside in any restaurant or park or any third place. I always prefer my house our her house in presence of family members, so that they too have faith on us and get to know there is nothing unusual between them. This is very important. Give them freedom to have party at home, to meet at home. Know his/her friend's parents and interact with them. Share phone numbers between parents.
Our government is busy in Development and other activities, let us stand ourself and take a step towards a better future of our kids.
Give your daughter or son proper career as well as social belonging guidance. SAY them there is not only career important in life, but there are also social values which put you high as always remain with you in the society. Once your are out of career, only values in the society remains with you.
